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Paperback
Publisher: Cleis Press
From the publishers of the best-selling Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women (35,000 copies sold) comes a companion book for men. Among the topics covered are safety, preparation, and hygiene; how to give and receive anal pleasure; building trust and communicating desires; and choosing toys, accessories, and safe-sex supplies. An extensive resource guide of books, videos, and Web sites is also included.
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| Excellent book for beginners and pros alike |
| Customer Rating: 5 out of 5 |
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I'm an oral sex man myself, both giving and receiving, but I aim to please and, therefore, try to be ready for whatever form of lovemaking that my partners wish to indulge in.
"The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men" is an excellent exploration of this controversial brand of sex, highly recommended for those who have yet to take the plunge, as either receiver or giver. Those who are already old hands at anal sex should find much to revel in, too.
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| Good for begginers, lacking for the expereinced |
| Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 |
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Overall, I thought the book was well written, descriptive and to the point. I think it did the job it was intended to do: give a broad general introduction to anal sex. I'll agree that the illustrations were lacking, although, I wonder if they weren't intentionally campy. If you're more expereinced or lookig for something in more detail, then go elsewhere, otherwise, I recommend checking this out. I would have loved to have had a copy growing up in a small, sexually repressed New Jersey town (Haddonfield). A lot of the stuff described in the book ... I had to discover on our own and I think that played a big part of our relationship. Regardless, it's worth the read. Some of the stuff may surprise even the "very knowlegdeable."
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| Informative! |
| Customer Rating: 5 out of 5 |
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Bought this book, and I must say the information contained herein is very well written (with a nice slice of comedy thrown in as well) I'd reccommed it to anyone new to anal sex.
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| Over rated |
| Customer Rating: 1 out of 5 |
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The book title mentions ULTIMATE...the other reviews are extremely positive. I guess I just don't get it. I'm 40 years old and I have done alot of reading over the years. This book is a good compilation of information, but it's not like this information hasn't been around for years. I hope no one waited too long for this book...and the illustrations are a joke and a huge disappointment.
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| Too important to be dismissed |
| Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 |
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Considering there are books out there about how to give better oral sex, it's not surprising there'd be books about the other end. This one's from the publishers who produced the anal guide for women, but this one is for the guys, both the giver and the receiver. For that reason, this one isn't for the girls and caters exclusively to the gay and bisexual man. The frustrating taboo of anal sex that remains very much alive in the gay community is knocked down in this book, probably by necessity and the literally life-saving information it offers. Anything any guy can think of in giving or getting is here: health precautions, preparation, muscle exercises and techniques intended to make the probing experience more pleasureable. An important other section of this book is that it strongly encourages self-exploration before trying it for the first time as part of a duo (or trio, or so on). The tips on self-exploration are so effective that they may actually help a guy decide if man-to-man anal penetration is or isn't for him. The "how-to's" aside, the book is also a tremendous resource guide and points to websites for health, toys and so on to gain further knowledge. Considering the life-and-death aspects of man-to-man anal sex, this book is far too important to be tossed aside for not being written well (which it is), because of religious dogma or for whatever other reason. It is an essential companion guide that, no, won't make you "exerpienced" by reading it or "promote" this most intimate of sexual interaction as something necessary for a fully satisfying gay sex life. More than that, it may make the experience even more enjoyable for those already experiencing it.
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